Secret of blissful relationship

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Just got one of Michael Webs weekly mails and thought it is worth sharing this one with you.It focuses on 3 Big F's which Should not be lacking in any relationship (Fighting, Forgiving and Forgetting).So if your relationship is short of any of these 3 factors then it is worth reading this article.

Most couples fight. And no, it is not healthy for a relationship
to fight (nor is it healthy to ignore problems in your marriage).
I need to define "fight." Fighting is not the same as arguing
your point or disagreeing on a matter. You can argue or disagree
without losing your temper or fighting. It becomes a fight when
either tempers flare or one person intentionally tries to hurt the
other, usually emotionally.

But the fight itself is not usually what is the most damaging to
a relationship. Like a wound that is not properly cleaned and
bandaged, injuries from a fight, if left uncared for can become
infected and even have the potential to kill a relationship.

You have probably heard of cases where men or women had a simple
infection that they ignored that eventually caused them to have a
foot, leg or arm amputated. Ignoring the wounds from a fight can
have devastating results.

If you and your partner have had a fight, here are some ways you can
"clean and bandage" the wounds so that healing will take place:

It takes two to fight. So if you have any injuries you are
partly to blame. There are rarely "innocent" victims. Admit the
role you played. Try to be the first to say "I'm sorry" for your
part in the fight, either provoking it or responding to it.

Deal with the wound as soon as is possible (before you go to
bed). The longer you let an injury remain wide open, the greater
the chances of the hurt becoming infected and the more pronounced
the scar will become.

Create a peace treaty. Really. Write down promises you can make
to each other so this same issue will not result in another fight.

Don't fixate on the ugly wound. Focus on (write down if possible)
the wonderful qualities of your mate. It is easier to forgive
those you think highly of.

Actively love the person you just fought with, even if it is
the last thing you want to do. Write love notes, slow dance, make
passionate love, etc. Love is a wonderful ointment that speeds up
the healing process.

Pray (together if at all possible) about the situation. Ask God
to heal you of your imperfections and to heal the pain you have
caused. Don't ask God to "fix" the other person.

Once you have cleaned and bandaged a wound, forget about it.
Don't be tempted to keeping peeking at the injury - it will only
slow down the healing.

Roses in love

Rose, the very word reminds us of the beautiful emotions that human being have ever experienced, love. Roses have never failed to depict the love, romance and passion within a relationship. When someone in love think of flowers, the first and last thing that comes in his/her mind are roses. Roses can express the feeling of love when words are inadequate to utter out the innermost feelings. A bouquet of roses is the deemed to be one of the best Valentine's Day gift ideas. But what most of us don't know is that roses of different colours have some significance of their own. We will tell you about the different colour of roses and what they really signify.

Red rose, which is the most common colour truly signifies the love, romance and intense passion of a lover. It's a popular belief that roses are the perfect window to a refined expression. It's lovers favorite flower and hot-pick for love struck-couples. Fiancé give it to their Fiancée, Boyfriends prefer it over any other gift and husbands love to surprise their wives by presenting rose bunches to celebrate their love. Rose Day, Valentine's Day, Marriage anniversary, Birthday or Courtship period, roses speak their own language of love. Bouquet of roses always click well and bring smile of the faces instantly.

Pink roses represent elegance and refinement. The darker shade of the pink rose symbolizes gratitude and admiration. A lighter shade of the pink rose symbolizes respect and understanding. The valentine season has all the colors of roses for you to select the most appropriate one to be given with true feelings.

Yellow roses signify happiness and cheerfulness also conveying your message of love and care. Combinations of red and yellow roses together indicate cheerful and happy feelings. The various shades of an orange rose make the valentine day special. Dark or deep orange indicates unconscious beauty while a lighter shade signifies passion and desire. Roses of pastel colors stand for warmth and friendship. A lavender color rose signifies love at first sight and fascination. Besides the various colors there are the hybrid tea roses that have a unique meaning of their own. These roses signify unforgettable memories of your loved one.

Two roses stalked together to figure a single stem are symbolic of a relationship of commitment or the upcoming of a marriage. The most common roses that are usually given on valentine are the red roses that signify love and romance. So select the best of roses to be given on Valentine and enjoy the season.

Test Your Pressure!

The pictures are non-animated pictures.
They are related to your pressure level.
If you see them to move, then that means you have pressure currently.
The speed of the moving is the level of your pressure.
The higher that moving speed, the higher pressure you have.
Most children and old men only see the pictures are not moving and keep still.
I saw them move in a slow motion, that’s mean I have a bit pressure currently.
Test yourself regularly with these pictures to know yourself better.
Sometimes, it is good to have a appropriate pressure to push us to do better,
but too much pressure can cause us to the end of the edge.
Be relax when you know you have too much pressure inside !

Best Men's Health Tips

Men's Health Tips

Today's prevention tools and treatments are helping men maintain and regain their health. Did you know that cure rates for testicular cancer approach 100 percent when detected early? Historically, men have been more reluctant than women to see their physician and they often wait until symptoms are severe. But new procedures and screenings are making it possible for various diseases to be detected while they are still highly treatable.

Here are some tips for living a long and healthy life:

1. Be physically active. Incorporate 30 minutes of activity into your day, every day.

2. See your physician for regular preventive check ups and screenings, such as the PSA test for prostate cancer.

3. Learn the symptoms of heart attack and stroke and if you have them, get help fast. New medications are highly effective if given quickly.

4. Don't smoke.

5. If you drink alcohol, do so in moderation, no more than two drinks per day.

6. Eat a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.

7. Have your cholesterol checked. If your total cholesterol is more than 240, your risk of heart and stroke is greater.

8. Remember to laugh. Find the humor in life. You'll be happier, and so will those who love you.

Top 10: Least Romantic Gifts For Women

No.10 - Tools

Say the word “tool” and the rows of miter saws at Home Depot dance in a guy's head. Good job fella, gifts like that should always be avoided. This includes anything used for manual labor -- household items for chores, products for gardening or anything that will involve her breaking a sweat. It doesn't matter if she hates the vacuum or needs a new hand mixer for holiday cooking; they are still associated with work. Work is never romantic. Unless you are a professional gigolo.

No.9 - Advertised jewelry

Jewelry is an incredibly romantic gift if -- big if -- you take the time to pick it out for her. It shows you are paying attention to her tastes. It's lazy to just buy whatever deal is on sale, and it’s extra pathetic to buy any jewelry advertised on TV or “designed” by a celebrity. What the hell does Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman know about necklace design? This is one of the least romantic gifts because it shows you have no originality, and thousands of other women will have the same necklace or bracelet as your girlfriend.

No.8 - Workout gear

She loves to work out, so the gift makes sense. Wrong. It doesn’t matter if her gym clothes are one wash away from disintegrating; buying workout gear is like saying: “Here is extra motivation to get your fat ass into the gym.” May the sweet Lord save your soul if you get the wrong size athletic bra or spandex pants. It goes without saying that exercise equipment is also one of the least romantic gifts -- ever.

No.7 - Gift certificates

A gift certificate is a great way to say: “I know nothing about you, so here; go buy yourself something from a store I think girls like you would shop in.” It also takes roughly three minutes for the entire gift certificate transaction. Do you really want your girlfriend or wife thinking you spent three minutes on her gift? Then again she does know you do plenty of things for only three minutes, so she shouldn’t be shocked. Oh, and money as a gift? Are you her grandmother or her partner? Put that checkbook back in your desk, you ninny. That is most definitely one of the least romantic gifts you can give your girlfriend.

No.6 - A self-help book

Sure she’d love to control her temper, be more outgoing in social situations or learn to meditate, but these are personal battles she’d rather fight on her own terms and through her own methods. She doesn’t want the one she loves to present her with a book to solve all her problems. You are supposed to think she is perfect. Regardless of whatever personal issues she needs to work through, she doesn't need to be reminded of them on her birthday or on your anniversary. She doesn't gift wrap a can of Right Guard for you, does she?

No.5 - A pet

Ignore those commercials and movies where the man surprises a woman with an adorable puppy or a cuddly little kitten. While a pet is an incredibly cute gift, it’s also a huge responsibility -- which is why it’s one of the least romantic gifts, when you think about all the work a pet entails. A puppy needs training, love and attention. Plus the added bills -- veterinarian, food, toys, and a ton of other things that might stretch her wallet. If you get her a pet, you can forget about having sex for a while. Not in front of Mr. Waffles. He‘s watching.

No.4 - A stuffed animal

Here is a great rule of thumb when buying a woman a romantic gift: Stop and ask yourself if this is something you would have done for a girl when you were 12 years old. If the answer is yes, it’s one of the least romantic gifts you can get her. Unless your partner is in high school, or insane, a stuffed animal is tacky. Especially the kind that come with sets of perfume, chocolates or any product that doesn’t need a stuffed monkey to make a sale. Flowers are incredibly romantic. Flowers held by a dog with a heart on his chest that says "I RUFF YOU" is a crime against common sense punishable by a swift punch in the nuts.

No.3 - A gag gift

The gag gift is funny -- for the first three minutes. Usually just to the guy. Then the giggling subsides (seriously, stop giggling dude) and she is left with a fish that sings or a mug that says “Work Sucks” when you push the button on the handle. Then this least romantic gift is a dust collector that sits in her closet until you turn your back and she throws it out or you break up and she tells friends about the terrible gift over drinks: "Remember that guy I dated who bought me the Snuggie? It was the only thing in our relationship that kept me warm." Ouch, that is rough.

No.2 - Sexy lingerie

It seems like a good idea, right? Something sexy for the bedroom for her, something sexy for the bedroom for you, too. Unfortunately, men and women are miles apart in the lingerie-buying department. Women want sexy yet practical. Men head straight for the Wild West hooker department. Sure she might wear it once to appease you, but it will get stuffed so far in her underwear drawer the wood will get a wedgie. Save the lingerie for a joint shopping trip. At least then you can be there when she tries it on.

No.1 - Porn

When buying a romantic gift, if it's something your best friend would also find awesome, put it back. Some women do like an occasional peek at on-screen nookie. It seems forbidden and naughty and gets them in the mood for the next three minutes of pleasure. But don't get too optimistic; porn is not something women want to see constantly, and it's definitely not something she wants to keep on a shelf with her other DVDs.

Most Important Part

My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body. Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, 'My ears, Mommy.'

She said, 'No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon.'

Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer.

So this time I told her, 'Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes'.

She looked at me and told me, 'You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind.'

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, 'No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child.'

Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to Grandpa.

She asked me, 'Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?' I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me, 'This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you was wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson.'She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears.



She said, 'My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder.'I asked, 'Is it because it holds up your head?' She replied, 'No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.'

Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one.It is sympathetic to the pain of others. People will forget what you said.......People will forget what you did........ But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.

7 Reasons NOT to Take Your Laptop on Holiday!

Heading off on vacation soon?

Then perhaps you're tempted to take your trusty laptop along
for the trip.

After all, you bought it for its mobility, and it's nice to
stay in touch via email with your family and friends back
home.

However, just before you start packing, its pays to consider
the downside of traveling with a laptop, particularly if
you're planning to go abroad:



1. Weight

A laptop (plus accessories) starts to feel heavy very
quickly. And who really needs MORE luggage to carry around?

2. Security risk

To you, it's a laptop computer. To a thief, it's a bag of
easy money. (About $1000). And that bag is something you
have to guard every second of your vacation.

3. Power supply problems

You'll need a different power adaptor plug for each country
you visit. And depending on your laptop power supply cable,
you may also need a step-up / step-down voltage transformer.

4. Connection complications

You'll need to find a way of connecting to the Internet. If
your laptop is suitably equipped and you can find a local
hotspot, you can take advantage of wireless Internet access.

Otherwise you're stuck with dial-up modem access, which
means a choice between:

- using your existing ISP's local call number in the
country you're visiting (provided your ISP has a local
number! AOL and Compuserve generally do.)

- making a long-distance telephone call to your regular
dial-up number back home

- signing up with a local ISP (rarely practical in the
short-term)

5. Telephone socket trouble

Different countries have different types of telephone
socket. If you're planning on connecting via dial-up access,
you'll have to bring a suitable telephone adaptor plug.

You'll also need a digital signal tester to test for higher-
voltage digital telephones lines. Otherwise you could end
up frying your modem and possibly the motherboard too.

6. Extra insurance cover

It's highly unlikely your travel insurance policy extends to
laptop computers. You'll therefore need to arrange separate
specialist insurance cover, which isn't cheap.

7. You're on holiday!

Do you really want your office with you on vacation? Aren't
you supposed to be getting away from it all?

If you're beginning to think that traveling with a laptop
computer is a major logistical exercise, then you're right.
(Just ask any "road warrior"!)

However, there IS an alternative:

An Internet Cafe.

Almost every city and large town now has several Internet
cafes. To locate one when you're abroad, just ask your
hotel receptionist or a friendly taxi driver.

You'll also find Internet cafes in airports, railway
stations, major hotels, business centers, public libraries,
and even onboard cruise ships.

Before you leave on your travels, simply ensure you can
access your email via a web browser. (This is known as
"webmail". Most ISPs offer this option automatically - just
ask them if you're unsure.)

Alternatively, set up a free webmail address (at
hotmail.com or yahoo.com) for the duration of your trip and
give it to anyone who might need to contact you.

With webmail set up, all you have to worry about is
remembering your email login and password. Everything else -
hardware, connectivity, security - is somebody else's
problem.

10 Top Tips Using Feng Shui for Love

Where you live and work has an incredible effect on your health and well being. According to the EPA People on average; spend at least 87% of their time indoors. This is why creating peaceful and harmonious environments is so important. Here are some Feng Shui tips for your bedroom to make sure your environment is supportive and loving for your relationships.

1. Remove clutter
When you get rid of clutter, you are making room for romance. If you are single, create an empty space in your closet for a future lover’s things. If attached, make room in your drawers and closets so there is equal space for both you and your partner’s possessions. Remove items from past relationships

2. No TV or Exercise Equipment!
Keep the TV out of the bedroom. Any electronic equipment should be placed in the office or other area of the home. A TV in the bedroom is not conducive to romance. The bedroom is for lovin’ not work. A treadmill or workout machine in the bedroom makes your relationship exhausting.

3. Always have things in pairs

Replace mismatched night tables with a set to encourage equality in your relationship. Have a pair of lights show you want to share your life and home with your loved one.

4. Decorate your room in the right color
Shades of pink helps draw love to you easily and create a romantic mood. Red, used sparingly, can be a sexy, bold color that creates passion or help draw a new lover.

5. Check the statues and art in your bedroom
Replace any photos, sculptures or art of single people or figures. Replace them with happy couples. This simple change will help draw a wonderful partner! You should discard or put away photos and momentous of old flames. Gifts and anything with the ex’s energy on it, keeps new love at bay.

6. Bed placement
Having your bed up against a wall, pushes away your chance for love. You should have your bed positioned so there is enough space to walk on either side. Not in line with the door but being able to see the door as you sleep.

7. The size of your bed matters!
If you are single a single mattress is not a good idea or snoozing on a king size or single mattress doesn’t encourage romance. There’s too much space. Sleeping on a huge mattress won’t encourage intimacy. Invest in a full size or a queen. What’s under your bed affects your sleep.

8. Satin sheets
Think of sensual, soft, bedding when selecting pillows, sheets and comforters. Any type of bedding that creates a cozy environment is great for the bedroom

9. Rose quartz
Buy chunks of rose quartz, rose quartz hearts, rose quartz lamps and place them in your bedroom. This stone is known to draw love into your life, increase self love and help heal a broken heart.

10. Personal photos
Don’t display family and kid photos in the bedroom. This is said to hinder your sex life. Put them in the living or family room where they belong!

Set the mood - the mood in the bedroom is important too
Light scented candles, drape your lamps in sheer fabrics or lace. Keep lighting soft. Play romantic music.. Place “happy” photos of you and your honey on the dresser.

How to lose fat

Hey guys what’s up? How are you doing? I hope everything its OK.

Some people get confuse about loosing weight, and losing fat. When you loose weight most of the times you loose muscle too. This can be good or bad, depends on you. If you want to get ripped, is better to just loose fat. If you want to be more skinny, you can loose fat and muscle too.

Loosing fat is not so hard. The problem is the food we eat and when we eat it! For example, is not the same thing if you eat a sandwich at 12:00pm than eating it at 11.00pm just before sleeping.

I will give you some tips to loose fat. This tips are basics, but I recommend you to visit a nutritionist. They are experts on that topic and they can help you with your problem or situation. If you don’t want to spend money on doctors or supplements, they are many blogs,videos, articles and e-books on Internet.

1)Do more cardio! I recommend you to do cardio 30mins of cardio 3 times in the week minimum. You can go running, or try some sports like boxing, brazilian jiu jitsu, muay thai, kickboxing etc. These sports are great for cardio exercises.

2)If you go to the gym, do more repetitions and carry less weight. For example, if you do 3×12 of bench press, now try 5×10( 5 sets of 10 reps.).

3) Get a partner. Is more fun if you find someone to loose weight or fat with you. Someone that can follow the same diet or exercises with you.

4)Hear music while you are training. Music helps you with motivation. You can try with an Ipod or a Sony Ericsson cellphone. I recommend you rock or electronic music for training. But this option depends on you.

5)Eat more grains and fruits. Grains helps you to clean up your intestine and this helps you to accelerate your metabolism.

6) Avoid white carbohydrates. White carbohydrates are the ones that gives your more fat. These carbohydrates can be found on hamburgers, hot dogs, etc. Just junk food.

7) Forget about calories drinks. Cola and energy drinks are tons of calories. Make water your primary drink.

Make your favorite food more nutritive. If you like pizza you can try to make one more nutritive. Check out these pictures.

9)Watch your portion sizes. If you are going to eat an apple. It doesn’t mean that you can eat 50 apples because you want to loose weight ha ha.

10)Don’t excess on exercise or diets. If you excess training up or doing exercise. This will bring you more problems, so keep it cool and normal.

Foods That Lower Cholesterol

Some people just love food. The taste, flavor, sweetness, etc. But sometimes we just eat so much that suddenly we have health problems. Problems like high-pressure blood, diabetes, and cholesterol.

Cholesterol is a substance we can find in most of the food we daily eat. Cholesterol is not bad, is just bad when we eat it in excess. Cholesterol is not just a problem, it causes more problems. When you have an excess of cholesterol, most of the times you will have high-pressure blood, and this can cause you a heart attack and other cardiac problems.

There are many ways to reduce cholesterol. The most common way is doing exercise. Cardiovascular exercise like running, jugging, aerobics, spinning,etc. Helps you to reduce cholesterol and helps your circulating system. Depending on your age, is the type of exercise you should do.

If you have a high cholesterol problem, you need to do other things to lower your cholesterol, exercise can help you, but you need to eat healthy too. Here is a list of foods you can eat to lower your cholesterol.

Oatmeal and oat bran

Oatmeal contains soluble fiber, which reduces your low-density lipoprotein (LDL), the “bad” cholesterol. Soluble fiber is also found in such foods as kidney beans, apples, pears, psyllium, barley and prunes.

Soluble fiber appears to reduce the absorption of cholesterol in your intestines. Ten grams or more of soluble fiber a day decreases your total and LDL cholesterol. Eating 1 1/2 cups of cooked oatmeal provides 6 grams of fiber. If you add fruit, such as bananas, you’ll add about 4 more grams of fiber. To mix it up a little, try steel-cut oatmeal or cold cereal made with oatmeal or oat bran.

Walnuts, almonds and more

Studies have shown that walnuts can significantly reduce blood cholesterol. Rich in polyunsaturated fatty acids, walnuts also help keep blood vessels healthy and elastic.

Almonds appear to have a similar effect, resulting in a marked improvement within just four weeks.

Fish and omega-3 fatty acids

Research has supported the cholesterol-lowering benefits of eating fatty fish because of its high levels of omega-3 fatty acids. Omega-3 fatty acids also help the heart in other ways such as reducing blood pressure and the risk of blood clots. In people who have already had heart attacks, fish oil — or omega-3 fatty acids — significantly reduces the risk of sudden death.

Doctors recommend eating at least two servings of fish a week. The highest levels of omega-3 fatty acids are in mackerel, lake trout, herring, sardines, albacore tuna and salmon. However, to maintain the heart-healthy benefits of fish, bake or grill it. If you don’t like fish, you can also get omega-3 fatty acids from foods like ground flaxseed or canola oil.

Olive oil

Olive oil contains a potent mix of antioxidants that can lower your “bad” (LDL) cholesterol but leave your “good” (HDL) cholesterol untouched.

The Food and Drug Administration recommends using about 2 tablespoons (23 grams) of olive oil a day to get its heart-healthy benefits. To add olive oil to your diet, you can saute vegetables in it, add it to a marinade, or mix it with vinegar as a salad dressing. You can also use olive oil as a substitute for butter when basting meat.

Foods fortified with plant sterols or stanols

Foods are now available that have been fortified with sterols or stanols — substances found in plants that help block the absorption of cholesterol.

Margarines, orange juice and yogurt drinks fortified with plant sterols can help reduce LDL cholesterol by more than 10 percent. The amount of daily plant sterols needed for results is at least 2 grams — which equals about two 8-ounce (237 milliliters) servings of plant sterol-fortified orange juice a day.

10 Things You Need to Know About Love

1. Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love.

2. Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic.



3. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.

4. Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself.

5. If somebody asks you to do something that you don't want to do in order to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love.

6. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction.

7. It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.

8. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory.

9. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability.

10. Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated.

What month u were born in

JANUARY=PIMP
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them MFE.

FEBRUARY=THUG
Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. sexiest out of everyone. A real speed demon. Has more than one best friend. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.


MARCH=GORGEOUS
Drop dead gorgeous!!! Attractive personality. Very! sexy. Affectionate & Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Chatterbox! Loves to talk a lot! Loves to get their way! . Unbelievable kisser! Easily angered. Very stubborn in the most way possible! Loves to get noticed! Willing to take risks for others. Makes good choices. Has a great fashion sense! Maybe a little too popular with others * wink wink *. Outgoing and crazy at times! Intelligent. Can sometimes be a heartbreaker! Can love as much as
possible! Hates insults. Loves compliments! A very big flirt! Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. The best in bed out of NE of these months!! Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others, likes to keep they’re crushes kind a secret, pretty much flawless.


APRIL=SEXY
Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and travelling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.


MAY=LOVER
Hella sexy, loves sex n making luv, tends to be SOOOOO hot!! Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people

9;s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.


JUNE = LUST
Fun to be with. Loves to try new things. Boy/girls LOVE you. You are very hot. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. snazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.




JULY=GANGSTA
You've got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have a very attractive partner, a wicked hottie. Like somebody with a JUNE birthday. It is also more likely than that you have a massive record collection. When it comes to films, you know how to pick them and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, you've got the looks for it!!!


AUGUST=ATTITUDE
outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. self control. kind hearted. Self confident. loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. easy to get along with and talk to. has an "every thing's peachy" attitude. likes talking and singing. loves music. daydreamer. easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. loves to be loved. hates studying. in need of "that someone". longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or restricted. lives by "no pain no gain" caring. always a suspect. playful. mysterious. "charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. stubborn. curious. independent. strong willed. a fighter.


SEPTEMBER=FINEASS PIMP
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Great in bed. Inner and physical beauty. Doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. A meaningful love life partner. Makes right choices. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Does not harm others. It is all about love and fairness. Easily hurt and hard to recover. Daydreamer and does fulfill. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Knows what to do, to have fun. Unpredictable. Someone to have close to you. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.


OCTOBER=HOTTIE
Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.


NOVEMBER=SWEETIE
Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves travelling. Dislike being at home. Restless. having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.


DECEMBER=BEAUTY
This straight-up means you’re the most good-looking Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves travelling. Dislike being at home. Restless. having many children. Hardworking. High spirited

Two Days We Should Not Worry

There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.



One of these days is Yesterday with all its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains.

Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday.

We cannot undo a single act we performed; we cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone forever.

The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow with all its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and its poor performance; Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control.

Tomorrow's sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in Tomorrow, for it is yet to be born.

This leaves only one day, Today. Any person can fight the battle of just one day. It is when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities Yesterday and Tomorrow that we break down.

It is not the experience of Today that drives a person mad, it is the remorse or bitterness of something which happened Yesterday and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring.

Let us, therefore, Live but one day at a time.

Tips For Buying The Right Laptop Computer

It's easy to be intimidated by all the laptop models on the
market today. There are literally dozens and dozens in every
price range.

The key to finding the right one for you is to step back and
consider exactly how you plan to use your laptop. When you
define what you need before you go shopping, buying the
right machine becomes much easier.



Here are 5 basic factors to consider:

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#1. SIZE
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In the world of mobile computing, size definitely matters.
The size of a laptop affects two key areas: portability and
display size.

If you're always on the go and will be using your computer
only in short bursts, a so-called ultralight will save you
some shoulder strain.

On the other hand, if you're going to spend hours in front
of your laptop, a larger display may be in order.

Today, some laptop displays exceed 17 inches, rivaling the
display size of many desktop systems. The down side is that
these monsters can easily weigh three times as much as an
ultralight.

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#2. HARD DRIVE
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Speaking of size, what about the size of the hard drive? One
way to approach this issue is to ask yourself the following
question:

Will this be my primary computer, or will it supplement my
desktop system?

If the former, you should look for a bigger hard drive - 60
GB or more.

If the latter, you may be able to make it with a 20-30 GB
hard drive.

But even this isn't absolute.

If, for example, you plan to copy a huge MP3 library from
your desktop system to your laptop to make your music
library portable, you'd be well advised to err on the side
of too big.

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#3. MEMORY
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In determining the right amount of system memory, or RAM,
take a look at the ways in which you intend to use your
laptop:

If your needs are somewhat mundane - email, spreadsheets,
word processing, etc. - 256 MB of RAM should be plenty. This
is a common configuration for many laptops, so it means you
probably won't need to spend extra for more RAM.

On the flip side, if you're an aspiring mobile digital
photographer or videographer, you should stuff your laptop
with as much RAM as it can hold.

In fact, exactly how much RAM your laptop can hold may in
part drive your purchase decision. Applications for editing
and manipulating multimedia content are notorious resource
hogs.

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#4. NETWORK CONNECTIONS
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Thanks in no small part to the Internet, computing in the
21st century relies heavily on being connected:

Connected to the Internet, connected to a corporate network,
connected to a wireless network, connected to a home
network, connected to an online service.

Your life will be easier if you buy a laptop that includes
built-in means to connect to them all.

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#5. PRICE
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If you're considering a laptop, you're probably wondering
how much money you'll need to spend.

A few years ago, you'd be hard-pressed to find one for under
$2,000. Today, there are plenty of laptops to be had for
under $1,000.

What's more, most of the major manufacturers offer a variety
of financing options.

Laptop prices have come down, to be sure. However, a laptop
still represents a fairly major purchase for most people.

If you take the time to search for a laptop that meets your
specific needs, you should get many years of use and
enjoyment from this important investment.

shower test

When you step into a shower, which part of the body do you wash first? (No Cheating!)

Chest

Face

Armpits

Hair

Privates

Shoulders

Others


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Now scroll down and check what/who you are ... this is pretty enlightening!!!


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The following describes your character:

CHEST:

You are a practical person, straight forward and do not beat around the bush. To you, convenience is of paramount importance. You hate to be distracted when concentrating and are impatient with people who do not see things your way. You are a good sex partner and willing to try new things. Your best partner in life will be those who chose HAIR.

FACE:

Money is important to you and you will do anything to get it. Integrity and dignity ! is not important. You feel that friends are there to be used and life is one big ha**le. Other people find it hard to understand you but you are not concerned as to what they think. Very self-centred person. Below average sex partner as too selfish and tend to be absorbed in self pleasure at the expense of your partner. Your best partner in life will be those who chose PRIVATES and OTHERS.

ARMPITS:

You are a dependable and hard working person. Generally very popular people as you are very down to earth and willing to help others. You tend to get yourself into trouble as you cannot tell whether people are genuine towards you. Trusting type. You make very poor sex partners as you are the working type with average talent. Do not always consider your partner's needs. Your best partner in life will be those who chose SHOULDERS.

HAIR:

Artistic, creative, caring type. Positive thinker. Day dreaming is your hobby but you can achieve what most other people cannot. You will work tirelessly towards goals which are to your liking. You are able to see and understand things others don't. Money, material possessions are not important. Friends and family are important. You make the Best sex partners. You are most willing to explore. Especially warm and sensual lovers. You love to please your partner. You value intimate moments with those you love. Talent, intelligence, loyalty, kindness, intuition are your main strengths. Your best partners in life will be those who chose CHEST and PRIVATES.

PRIVATES:

Shy type. You lack self confidence and tend to be misunderstood by others. Find it difficult to share yourself with others. You do not have many friends as others sometime find you boring unresponsive. Perseverance is not your strength and you tend to give up easily and at the first opportunity. However, you make an above average sex partner. You are able to show your true emotions to very few people. But, in sex, you find your inner strengths. And you find sex a safe avenue to share your true feelings. Your best partner in life will be those who chose FACE and HAIR.

SHOULDERS:

A born loser. You fail in almost everything that you do. People dislike you and you tend to spend your time alone. Your types have been known to be heavy gamblers and drinkers. You see the world as a living hell. Money and power are also important to you, but your luck will always fail you. You make a lousy sex partner. You will find it difficult to find a partner in life. Those who chose ARMPITS are your only chance.

OTHERS:

You are a very average per! son. Undoubtedly, you have your inner strengths but people find it hard to see. You must learn to be a little bit more adventurous and sell your potential. Deep down, you are a very likeable person with very few faults. However, the key will be to make your strengths stand out and not just hide your weaknesses. You are an average sex partner. You have great fantasies about different techniques but unfortunately are not brave enough to try them out. Your best partners in life will be those who chose FACE.

Top 10: Reasons To Train In The Morning

Some people will tell you that it makes absolutely no difference what time of day you train. The claim is that the end result will be the same whether you train at 7:00 a.m. or 7:00 p.m. Then again, there are other people who say that is better to workout in the morning or vice versa. While the verdict is still out on that debate, there are many benefits to training first thing in the morning. Here are 10 reasons why the early bird gets the worm:

Number 10

Builds consistency

You probably have the best of intentions when you say that you'll train during your lunch hour or after work. Unfortunately, your workout time frequently ends up at the bottom of your to-do list and by day's end you don't even set foot in the gym.

You can completely avoid this situation by training first thing in the morning. Get to the gym before work and you'll be able to enjoy your lunch break with your colleagues and your evenings will be free to build model airplanes or to pick up women at your favorite watering hole.

Number 9

No waiting

It drives me up the wall when I have to wait for a machine at the gym. I like it even less when someone takes the weights I was using when I went to get a drink of water at the bubbler.

But if you train early enough, you'll have the pleasure of sharing the space and the equipment with only a few like-minded folks. You can exchange knowing glances as you wipe the sleep from your eyes. Additionally, you'll be able to enjoy a more intense workout due to the reduced waiting time.

Number 8

Jump starts your metabolism

Working out jump starts your metabolism and helps keep it elevated for hours. Why not get your engines running as soon as possible? In this way, your increased metabolism will be working -- and burning more calories -- while you are, instead of when your body is at rest. If you are like many people who sit at a desk all day, you know that this is reason enough to train in the morning.

Number 7

Gives you energy

Did you ever notice that the military trains in the morning? This is because it gives the soldiers the required energy to get through the rigors of their day. So, if the weather and accumulated fatigue have you feeling less than crisp lately, you might want to try hitting the gym first thing in the morning. Doing so will release endorphins and other hormones to give you a much-appreciated boost that often lasts all day. In other words, it'll give you the required energy to work all day and party all night if you desire.

Number 6

Clears your mind

I don't mean to sound "zen" or anything, but training really helps clear your head and put you in a healthy mindset. Training before your day officially begins allows you to start each day with a fresh perspective as you destroy the stresses of the previous day with a bench press or a treadmill. This will help you reduce the chances of become stressed or upset during the course of your new day. This may be an individual thing, but the general consensus is that exercise reduces stress.

Number 5

Regulates your appetite

Training in the morning will help you regulate your appetite for the day. You will gradually discover that your meal times become like clockwork and you won't get as many cravings and serious dips in energy levels, which will deter binge eating and overzealous snacking.

Number 4

Increases mental awareness

You may have noticed that you feel more alert and ready to take on whatever challenge or curveball life throws your way after a good workout. If you train before your work day begins, you'll be better equipped to deal with the up-hill battles presented to you at the office. In fact, working out increases your mental acuity for four to 10 hours after exercise. This is due, in part, to the increased flow of oxygen-rich blood to the brain.

Number 3

Increases discipline

It takes a great deal of discipline and motivation to get you ass out of bed in the morning, much more if you need to get to the gym. However, including that habit and finding the courage to get to the gym can drastically improve the quality of your life. Before you know it, the discipline it takes to work out every morning will spill over into other areas of your life and you'll be as driven in your cubicle as you are on the elliptical machine.

Number 2

Sleep better

Working out regularly results in better sleeping patterns and better sleep quality. Your body will tell you that it's time for bed, but knowing that you have to get up to train the next morning will also help you hit the racks at a decent hour. It is very important to give your body the time and rest that it needs to recuperate from your training; it'll be difficult to build mass and improve your cardio if you don't rest properly.

Number 1

Improves your diet

While it's tempting to think that working out before breakfast will result in immediate burning of your fat stores, it's just not the case. Actually, training before eating could shock your system and it will usually throw your body into a catabolic state (your body will burn muscle for energy). It can be tough, but try to have a low-calorie snack, such as an apple or some yogurt, about 30 minutes to an hour before you train. The snack will give you the energy you need for your training and it will burn off quickly. Working out in morning will also help you eat better during the day. You'll need the proper nutrients, which will cause you to crave better foods, and you won't want to waste the hard work that you put in by choosing the cheeseburger over the tuna salad sandwich.

set the alarm

So, there may be a method to the madness of people you see running by your window at 7:00 a.m. after all. You may want to try it and see what all the fuss is about. Training in the morning can be beneficial to your health and your peace of mind. However, if it doesn't work for you don't force it. The ideal time to train is when it feels right for you.

10 ways to rekindle The Magic in your relationship

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?



You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention
of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.


3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.

If love needs a reason

Man : I can’t tell the reason.. but I really like you..



Lady: You can’t even tell me the reason… how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man : I really don’t know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.

Lady: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend’s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!

Man : Ok.. ok!!! Erm… because you are beautiful, because your voice is sweet, because you are caring, because you are loving, because you are thoughtful, because of your smile, because of your every movements..

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and became comma. The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:

Dearest,

Because of your sweet voice that I love you. Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you. Because of your care and concern that I like you. Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you. Because of your smile, because of your every movements that I love you. Now can you smile? Now can you move? No, therefore I cannot love you.

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore. Do love need a reason?

No!

Therefore, I still love you. And love doesn’t need a reason.

how to make your women happy

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic!
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls



AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

First date mistakes men make

Let's face it, you never get a second chance to make a first impression!That's why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best on the very first date.



And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they're doing it right!

Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your chances of success on your first date:

MISTAKE #1 -- BUYING GIFTS

Bringing chocolate or flowers on a first date isn't the best idea - especially if you've just met the woman! She's there to get to know YOU. Women are always asking themselves "what does THAT mean?" And in this case it's, "He bought me flowers because he likes me, but he doesn't even know anything about me yet! A little suspicious.

MISTAKE #2 -- BEING MR. SERIOUS

When in the presence of a potential date, men often become boring, instead of keeping up the friendly vibe they have with their friends. They won’t make jokes or laugh with the woman, they won’t play around like they do with their friends and they generally take things a little too seriously. Why do men change their behavior around women, often without even realizing they’re doing it? Because they fear losing their only chance with the girl of their dreams, they try and play the safe side, which results in a “Mr. Serious.”

MISTAKE #3 -- CONDUCTING AN INTERVIEW

When men become "Mr. Serious" they often fall into "job interview conversation mode." Make sure you reserve questions like, "So where do you work?" or "How many brothers and sisters do you have?" for the future, after you've already had a lot of fun and made the sparks fly. Instead, talk about your hobbies, interesting stories and fun stuff. Avoid anything too deep for a long period of time. On a first date, it can make things a little depressing. Talk like you've known each other for years (as if you don’t need to do the awkward 20-questions quiz.) Of course you can ask basic questions, but never make it the main focus of your date. Focus on fun.

MISTAKE #4 -- BEING TOO NEEDY & DIRECT

Without realizing it, many guys turn their dates off by trying a little too hard. For example: Men will lean into a woman’s personal space, and ask, "so do you like me?" or constantly change his opinion to seek her approval and make her like him. Big mistake. Ironically, it's leaning back, staying cool and calm, being a little cheeky, interesting, mysterious and comfortable with yourself that actually gets a woman's attention and keeps her interested.

MISTAKE #5 -- GOING TO BORING PLACES

If your date finds the night boring, you're finished. When it comes to having fun on first dates, nothing is more important than what you do. And while dinners and movies are nice, it's really hard to leave a great impression in these settings. Why? Because they set a very "proper tone" that's hard to turn into fun and playful. And unless you're a super funny, intelligent and interesting guy, dinner and movie dates just aren't the best place to take your date. Instead, go to fun places like mini-golf parks, carnivals, parks, or even better, come up with your own unique and fun ideas.

So in essence, while there are many factors to having a successful date, a great date idea really helps you do many of them naturally! Remember, where you take a woman on a first date can be the difference between a great night and a dating disaster! Choose wisely!

Get Your Ex Back - 5 Ways to Success!

It's not easy to get your ex back after a breakup, in fact it can seem hopeless. However there are things you can do right now to get back in control of the situation and demonstrate to your partner how you've changed and why she should come back to you.

When you break-up, it doesn't need to be the absolute end of the relationship. Instead it can be a period of reflection where you realise just how much you do love your ex and how badly you want them back. If this sounds like you, then it's time to get over what's happened in the past and start acting in the present!



Here are 5 things you can do to win back your ex:

Show confidence
Be strong not needy. Men and women love the challenge of trying to attract strong, interesting people who are fun and know how to be confident in a social setting. There is no challenge in chasing someone who is weak and readily available. If you are the type of person who allows your partner to become your entire world then you need to change and become more independent and confident.

Show you can live without them
It’s said that “distance makes the heart grow fonder” and that can be a useful tool for winning back your ex. Sometimes you need time to let things cool off and remember why you found your ex attractive originally. If those same qualities are present then the desire can be rekindled and the lines of communication can be re-opened.

Show her you can be reasonable
A little flexibility and understanding can go a long way to smoothing over the rough patches of a break-up. Allowing your ex some time to gather their thoughts without the pressure of you making demands will help them realise you can be reasonable. This will encourage them to attempt to start communications again because they think you’ll be more likely to listen to their concerns and understand their point of view. In time, good communications will help you both work things out

Show independence
Along with showing confidence (above), if you have already broken up it is also necessary to show independence in the form of developing your own life outside of your partner. Get out and socialise, join clubs and meet new people. Don’t be tempted to stay home and dwell on your situation as this will make you more liable to foolish decisions and actions that you’ll regret later.

Show yourself
By this I mean show your true character. Whenever you live with someone you modify your personality to some extent to fit in with the other person. This may be part of the reason you and your ex split up – maybe your new personality was not as likable as your old one! Therefore, find your old self and be yourself – this in itself may be enough to rekindle the flame you once shared.

While the points above are unlikely to be sufficient by themselves, they will give you a good start and should show you enough to know whether you can get your ex back or not. Good luck with your task, it won’t be easy but with determination, flexibility and confidence you should be successful.

HOW TO TAKE HIM OUT

There are some things a guy will never hand over, like the remote or the last beer in the fridge. But when it comes to planning dates, we're more than happy to give you the reins. And no, it's not because we're cheap or lazy. Or at least those aren't the only reasons. Letting you sweat the details of arranging a night out is a nice change of pace for us – provided you follow these tips. Okay, so we're working on relinquishing total control.

PLAN YOUR ATTACK
You've already wowed your date by asking him out, so work it for all it's worth with a solid game plan. But keep the details to yourself, surprising him fuels his curiosity and gives you an irresistible air of mystery. “This woman asked me out, and all she said was wear something nice,” says Mike, 25. “She picked me up and we went to an Italian restaurant. Afterwards, we went to her place for martinis. All I had to do was enjoy the ride.”
But nothing freaks a guy out faster than a woman who throws a hissy fit because her plan hit a snag. So if your comedy club reservations don't pan out, take it in stride. Your grace alone will win him over.

STRAY FROM THE NORM
True, you can't go wrong with dinner and a movie, but why not break with tradition and show him you're down for unconventional escapades? “One girl took me to the zoo,” says 30 year old Donnie. “We were looking at this African warthog type thing when suddenly it sprays us with who knows what. She laughed as hard as I did and I knew right then that we could have fun together.” So go for a boat ride or buy a basket of fried chicken and head to the park. The moral: Originality scores major points, even if you do end up getting peed on.

PLAY HARD TO GET
Some guys think that if you're brazen enough to ask him out, he'll have your bra off quicker than you can say “I'm easy.” Let him know you're a harder nut to crack than he thinks. “This girl I was into asked me to go snowboarding overnight and I thought I was in,” says Remy, 28. “But she wouldn't let me touch her. I made the mistake of assuming that if she was aggressive enough to hit on me, she'd be aggressive in every way. Being wrong made things a lot more interesting.”

DON'T SPEND A FORTUNE
Throwing cash around like you're Britney Spears, will make you come across as a money-conscious show-off. An inexpensive date, on the other hand, tells him your easygoing and not materialistic – two very attractive attributes. “There are only a couple of dates that stand out in my mind,” says Aaron, 33. “One was with a woman who asked me over to her place for lunch. Another was with a girl who invited me to go for a run with her. I could tell they were not the type of women who'd inquire about the kind of car I drive.” But remember, you asked him out , so be prepared to cover the costs. If he's anything other than a gigantic loser, he'll offer to kick in.

Birthday gift ideas for your boyfriend

Whether you and your boyfriend have been dating for three months or three years, he deserves to have a wonderful present from you whenever he celebrates his birthday.



Well-thought out gifts are always a great way to show your affection and love for your boyfriend. Some men may not be as open emotionally as women, but your boyfriend surely could not resist giving you a kiss or a hug in exchange of all the time and effort that you put into finding the perfect birthday present for him.

Here are some great and romantic gift ideas to give the most special man in your life on his birthday:

1. Something romantic.

A birthday present does not always have to be something expensive. Be creative in thinking of a romantic birthday gift for your boyfriend. If he has always given you flowers before, why don't you return the favor by giving him a dozen red roses? It will make him remember you as the only girl who ever gave him roses for his birthday.

A little effort would go a long way, too. Cook him his favorite dish and invite him over for a romantic picnic or dinner. Bake him a birthday cake, invite his friends over and surprise him with a birthday party.

Shower him with love notes, or make his entire day special by giving him a different gift in the morning, noon and at night. Be creative in thinking of something fun, romantic and special to give him a birthday that he is not likely to forget.

2. Something that he wants.

If your special someone is into gadgets, give him that game gadget or music player that he is always talking about. If he is a car enthusiast, get him a great car accessory. Or, rent a sports vehicle or his dream car for him to drive on his birthday. Go out and spend a day indulging in the sport that he just loves.

3. Something naughty.

Glow-in-the-dark boxer shorts are a sure-fire way to tickle his fancy. An intimate yet funny gift will remind him of the intimate moments that you shared together as a couple.

4. Something nice and traditional.

A gift basket with all the things that he likes on one delightful package also makes for a great birthday present for your boyfriend's birthday. A basketful of chocolates or wine is a wonderful birthday present.

If he is an executive, get him an expensive tie, cute cuff links or a nice wristwatch. Give him a set of his favorite cologne, perfume and aftershave. If he loves sailing, get him an antique compass that he can use.

5. Something that says "I love you."

You can literally give him an item with the message of how you feel. Give him a keychain for his car and house keys with an engraved message. Even small items like this would make your boyfriend feel special.

Remember that it is not always the cost that counts when giving out presents for your boyfriend on his birthday.

A well-thought out gift that would remind your boyfriend of how special he is to you will send out the right message on his birthday.

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14 signs of your soulmate

14. You argue and fight with them, but still can't get them out of your mind...



13. When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up but you miss them already when it was just five minutes ago...


12. You read their texts over and over again...

11. You walk really slow when you're with them...


10. You feel shy whenever you're with them...


9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...


8. You smile when you hear their voice...


7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you... all you see is him/her...


6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...


5. They become all you think about...


4. You get high just from their scent and closeness...



3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them...


2. You would do anything for them...


1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.....

Birthday - Colour Nature

December 23rd - January 1st Red
January 2nd - January 11th Orange
January 12th - January 24th Yellow
January 25th - February 3 Pink
February 4th - February 8th Blue
February 9th - February 18th Green
February 19th - February 28th Brown
March1st - Match 10th Aqua
March 11 - March 20th Lime
March 21 satu Black
March 22 nd - March 31st Purple
April 1st - April 10th Navy
April 11th - April 20th Silver
April 21st - April 30th White
May 2nd - May 14th Blue
May 15th - May 24th Gold
May 25th - June 3rd Cream
June 4th - June13th Gray
June 14 - June 23rd Maroon
June 24th Gray
June 25 - July 4th Red
July 5th - July 14th Orange
July 15th - July 25 tahu Yellow
July 26th - August 4 tahu Pink
August 5th - August 13th Blue
August 14th - August 23rd Green
August 24 - September 2nd Brown
September 3rd - September12th Aqua
September 13th - September 22nd Lime
September 23rd Olive
September 24th - October 3rd Purple
October 4th - October 13th Nave
October 14th - October 23rd Silver
October 24 - November 11th White
November 12th - November 21st Gold
November 22nd - December1st Cream
December 2nd - December11th Gray
December 12th - December 21st Maroon
December 22nd Teal



RED
Cute and lovable type, you are picky but always in love ... and liked to be loved. Fresh and cheerful, but can be "moody" at times. Capable with people,
nice, soft, and that can love you for the way you are. Likes people that are easy to talk to, and can make you feel comfortable.

CREAM
Competitive and sportive. Don't like losing and always cheerful! You are trustworthy, and very out-going. You choose love carefully, and don't fall in love easily. But once you find the right one, you don't let go for a long long time.

TEAL
You are mostly interested in your looks. And have high standards in picking love. You think and make a solution precisely, and hardly make stupid mistakes. You like to lead, and is easy for you to make new friends.

GREY
You are attractive, and active. You never hide your feelings, and
express everything that's inside. But can be selfish at times. You want to be noticed, and don't like to be treated unequally. You can brighten up people's day. You know what to say at the right time, and you have a good sense of humor.

GREEN
You get along well with new people. You are not really a shy person, but sometimes you can hurt people's feelings by your words... You like to be loved and noticed by your lover, but mostly you are single, waiting for the right person.

GOLD
You know what's right and what's wrong. You are cheerful and out going. It's hard for you to find the one you want, but once you find the right person, you won't be able to fall in love again for a long time.

PINK
You are always trying your best in everything, and like to help and care for other people. But you are not easily satisfied. You have negative thoughts, and you look for romantic love like in a fairytale.

YELLOW
You are sweet and innocent. Trusted by many people, and have a strong leadership towards relationships. You make good decision and make the right choice at the right time. And always dreaming of romantic relationship.

MAROON
You are intelligent, and know what's right. You like to take things go your way, which can sometimes cause trouble or not thinking about other people's feelings. But you are patient when it comes to love... Once you get a hold of the right person, it's hard for you to find a better love.

ORANGE
You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.

PURPLE
You are mysterious, never selfish and get interested in things easily. Your day can be sad or happy depending on your mood. You are popular between friends but you can act stupid at times, and forget things easily. You go for person that's trustworthy.

LIME
You are calm, but easily stressed out. You get jealous easily, and
complain over little things. You can't get stuck into one thing, but you have a capable personality for everyone to trust you and like you.

SILVER
You are imaginative and shy, but you like trying new things. You like to challenge yourself. You learn things easily, and like "Hard to get". Your love life is normally hard and confusing.

WHITE
You dream and have goals in your life. You get jealous easily and you don't react to things easily. You are different and sometimes thought highly by others.

OLIVE
You are warm and light hearted. You seem to flow well with friends and family. You don't like violence and know what's right. You are kind and cheerful, but don't envy other people easily.

BROWN
You are active and sportive. It's hard for other people to become close with you, but you fall in love easily. But once you find out you can't get something, you give up and let go easily as well.

BLUE
You have low self-esteem, and very picky. You are artistic and like to fall in love, but you let your love pass by, by loving with your mind, not your heart.

NAVY
You are attractive, and love your life. You have a strong feeling
towards everything. And very easily distracted. Once you get angry at someone, it's hard for you to forgive them.

AQUA
Your feelings change suddenly and easily. You are always lonely, and like travelling. You are truthful, but listen and believe other people too easily. It's hard to find love for you, and you get lost in love easily. Sometimes you get hurt by love.

BLACK
You are challenging, and have the "guts". But you don't like changes in your life. And once you make a decision, you keep it that way for a long time.
Your love life is also challenging, and different.

ORANGE
You are responsible for your own actions, and you know how to treat people. You always have goals to reach, and are competitive. When it comes to friendship, you find it hard to trust someone, but once you find the right friend, you trust them for ever.